How To Win More Negotiations - Focus Your Thoughts - Negotiation Tip of the Week

To win more negotiations, you should focus your thoughts. That's to say, you should be very thoughtful of what you're thinking during the negotiation, why you have such thoughts, and where those thoughts might lead. To do otherwise could mean you're led haphazardly towards a negotiation outcome that doesn't serve your goals of the negotiation. Observe the following to increase the focus of your thoughts in a negotiation.

Breaking News: Do you take note of how and when TV News organizations flash that moniker across/on the screen? At that moment they're attempting to grab your attention from what you were focusing on and directing it to what they want you to focus on. In most cases, the breaking news is nothing that would really demand you lend your attention to, but they've captured your focus, which was their intent. If you raise your awareness to what's being attempted by such ploys in a negotiation, you'll focus your thoughts on not losing your focus per what's important to your negotiation effort.

Be mindful of when timeouts are called:
When timeouts are called in a negotiation, note the reason cited for the timeout and assess the reasoning validity. As an example, if you happen to be winning the negotiation or a point in that process, and the opposing negotiator asks to take a break, he could be doing so to slow your momentum, take the time to gather additional insights/thoughts, and/or to refresh himself. All such insights will give you guidance per what may be occurring in his mind, as to the reasoning he called a timeout. Thus, it may or may not behoove you to grant his request, depending on how hard you wish to push at that time and/or what your next move is intended to achieve. The point is, be aware when there's a shift in the negotiation and what may have occurred to cause it.

Diversions - Sizzlin' Korean BBQ:
Take note of what the opposing negotiator is asking you to focus on. Question yourself, and possibly her, why she's asking you to lend your attention to the point she's highlighting. Note the same when you make a point and attempts are made to divert it. Ask yourself, why was my point given less credence? Why doesn't she want to address my point and what implications does that have?

In a negotiation, the other negotiator may not tell you how to think, but he may attempt to direct your thoughts by suggesting what you should think about. In so doing, he's controlling you and the negotiation. To the degree that you think of what you're thinking about, why you have such thoughts and how those thoughts are aligned with the goals you seek for the negotiation, you'll combat his efforts while promoting the outcome you seek.

By focusing on what you think about and why you have such thoughts, you'll be in more control of the negotiation, which will allow you to win more negotiations... and everything will be right with the world.

Remember, you're always negotiating!
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 By Greg Williams


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