How the Way of Thinking Changes Your Life

By Iqra Shafiq

Once you reach adulthood things tend to change and become what they never were. Putting it simply, maturity makes you think differently. Every day we encounter problems and within the growing age, we are able to tackle them in a better way. Apart from problems or incidents we interact with a lot of people or bump into them. That interaction makes us have an image of other people. What makes an image better or worse is the way we perceive things. Undoubtedly, people can have different behaviors and can make others think of them in a certain way but most of it is the product of our own perception. 
We see things, we assess things and eventually, we behave the same way. For instance, owing to some problem we get depressed. Depression itself is a cause of negativity in the way of thinking. In that case, everything that has a great deal of righteousness and goodness in it seems to be stupid, awkward or depressing. The other way round, you start thinking that anybody or anything that you are facing should be avoided or treated severely. That's how your behavior changes gradually or in a worse case can get permanence. 
Another example can be the way when you see things perfectly well even they not are. It only happens when you are in a pleasant mood or simply you are happy. You may notice that you take things as positive and cannot blow up so easily even if it usually provokes you to. These cases are not always the same way but mostly these are the behaviors that typically belong to human nature. So it's the perception that makes you who you are. 
Let's do a simple experiment with yourself. Whenever you look at others just try to find positive things or qualities in the nature of people. It is not possible that a person you are assessing lack every quality worth noticing. Nobody's a demon altogether. There can have positive aspects of one's nature waiting for you to notice. In this way, your mind would have a broader and positive perspective which can enable you to be happier and make things easier. A slight but continuous change in your attitude can make your life comfortable. It's probably the best way to tackle problems. Lastly, lessen your unreasonable worries, lessen negativity, prolong the happy moments as you deserve them the most.